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the same country; in the pews of the churches; little placards plead

with the worshipper against the fury of expectoration。  Charles

Dickens self…sacrificingly undertook the reformation of our American

manners in unspeakable particulars。  I think the lesson was not quite

lost; that it held bad manners up; so that the churls could see the

deformity。  Unhappily; the book had its own deformities。  It ought

not to need to print in a reading…room a caution to strangers not to

speak loud; nor to persons who look over fine engravings; that they

should be handled like cobwebs and butterflies' wings; nor to persons

who look at marble statues; that they shall not smite them with

canes。  But; even in the perfect civilization of this city; such

cautions are not quite needless in the Athenaeum and City Library。



        Manners are factitious; and grow out of circumstance as well as

out of character。  If you look at the pictures of patricians and of

peasants; of different periods and countries; you will see how well

they match the same classes in our towns。  The modern aristocrat not

only is well drawn in Titian's Venetian doges; and in Roman coins and

statues; but also in the pictures which Commodore Perry brought home

of dignitaries in Japan。  Broad lands and great interests not only

arrive to such heads as can manage them; but form manners of power。

A keen eye; too; will see nice gradations of rank; or see in the

manners the degree of homage the party is wont to receive。  A prince

who is accustomed every day to be courted and deferred to by the

highest grandees; acquires a corresponding expectation; and a

becoming mode of receiving and replying to this homage。



        There are always exceptional people and modes。  English

grandees affect to be farmers。  Claverhouse is a fop; and; under the

finish of dress; and levity of behavior; hides the terror of his war。

But Nature and Destiny are honest; and never fail to leave their

mark; to hang out a sign for each and for every quality。  It is much

to conquer one's face; and perhaps the ambitious youth thinks he has

got the whole secret when he has learned; that disengaged manners are

commanding。  Don't be deceived by a facile exterior。  Tender men

sometimes have strong wills。  We had; in Massachusetts; an old

statesman; who had sat all his life in courts and in chairs of state;

without overcoming an extreme irritability of face; voice; and

bearing: when he spoke; his voice would not serve him; it cracked; it

broke; it wheezed; it piped;  little cared he; he knew that it had

got to pipe; or wheeze; or screech his argument and his indignation。

When he sat down; after speaking; he seemed in a sort of fit; and

held on to his chair with both hands: but underneath all this

irritability; was a puissant will; firm; and advancing; and a memory

in which lay in order and method like geologic strata every fact of

his history; and under the control of his will。



        Manners are partly factitious; but; mainly; there must be

capacity for culture in the blood。  Else all culture is vain。  The

obstinate prejudice in favor of blood; which lies at the base of the

feudal and monarchical fabrics of the old world; has some reason in

common experience。  Every man; mathematician; artist; soldier; or

merchant;  looks with confidence for some traits and talents in his

own child; which he would not dare to presume in the child of a

stranger。  The Orientalists are very orthodox on this point。  〃Take a

thorn…bush;〃 said the emir Abdel…Kader; 〃and sprinkle it for a whole

year with water;  it will yield nothing but thorns。  Take a

date…tree; leave it without culture; and it will always produce

dates。  Nobility is the date…tree; and the Arab populace is a bush of

thorns。〃



        A main fact in the history of manners is the wonderful

expressiveness of the human body。  If it were made of glass; or of

air; and the thoughts were written on steel tablets within; it could

not publish more truly its meaning than now。  Wise men read very

sharply all your private history in your look and gait and behavior。

The whole economy of nature is bent on expression。  The tell…tale

body is all tongues。  Men are like Geneva watches with crystal faces

which expose the whole movement。  They carry the liquor of life

flowing up and down in these beautiful bottles; and announcing to the

curious how it is with them。  The face and eyes reveal what the

spirit is doing; how old it is; what aims it has。  The eyes indicate

the antiquity of the soul; or; through how many forms it has already

ascended。  It almost violates the proprieties; if we say above the

breath here; what the confessing eyes do not hesitate to utter to

every street passenger。



        Man cannot fix his eye on the sun; and so far seems imperfect。

In Siberia; a late traveller found men who could see the satellites

of Jupiter with their unarmed eye。  In some respects the animals

excel us。  The birds have a longer sight; beside the advantage by

their wings of a higher observatory。  A cow can bid her calf; by

secret signal; probably of the eye; to run away; or to lie down and

hide itself。  The jockeys say of certain horses; that 〃they look over

the whole ground。〃 The out…door life; and hunting; and labor; give

equal vigor to the human eye。  A farmer looks out at you as strong as

the horse; his eye…beam is like the stroke of a staff。  An eye can

threaten like a loaded and levelled gun; or can insult like hissing

or kicking; or; in its altered mood; by beams of kindness; it can

make the heart dance with joy。



        The eye obeys exactly the action of the mind。  When a thought

strikes us; the eyes fix; and remain gazing at a distance; in

enumerating the names of persons or of countries; as France; Germany;

Spain; Turkey; the eyes wink at each new name。  There is no nicety of

learning sought by the mind; which the eyes do not vie in acquiring。

〃An artist;〃 said Michel Angelo; 〃must have his measuring tools not

in the hand; but in the eye;〃 and there is no end to the catalogue of

its performances; whether in indolent vision; (that of health and

beauty;) or in strained vision; (that of art and labor。)



        Eyes are bold as lions;  roving; running; leaping; here and

there; far and near。  They speak all languages。  They wait for no

introduction; they are no Englishmen; ask no leave of age; or rank;

they respect neither poverty nor riches; neither learning nor power;

nor virtue; nor sex; but intrude; and come again; and go through and

through you; in a moment of time。  What inundation of life and

thought is discharged from one soul into another; through them!  The

glance is natural magic。  The mysterious communication established

across a house between two entire strangers; moves all the springs of

wonder。  The communication by the glance is in the greatest part not

subject to the control of the will。  It is the bodily symbol of

identity of nature。  We look int
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