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ady said to me in one of the States soon after my arrival in America。 〃Pardon me;〃 I answered; 〃I think we are doing much; perhaps too much。 At any rate we are doing something。〃 I then explained to her how Miss Faithful had instituted a printing establishment in London; how all the work in that concern was done by females; except such heavy tasks as those for which women could not be fitted; and I handed to her one of Miss Faithful's cards。 〃Ah;〃 said my American friend; 〃poor creatures! I have no doubt their very flesh will be worked off their bones。〃 I thought this a little unjust on her part; but nevertheless it occurred to me as an answer not unfit to be made by some other ladyby some woman who had not already advocated the increased employment of women。 Let Miss Faithful look to that。 Not that she will work the flesh off her young women's bones; or allow such terrible consequences to take place in Coram Street; not that she or that those connected with her in that enterprise will do aught but good to those employed therein。 It will not even be said of her individually; or of her partners; that they have worked the flesh off women's bones; but may it not come to this; that when the tasks now done by men have been shifted to the shoulders of women; women themselves will so complain? May it not go further; and come even to this; that women will have cause for such complaint? I do not think that such a result will come; because I do not think that the object desired by those who are active in the matter will be attained。 Men; as a general rule among civilized nations; have elected to earn their own bread and the bread of the women also; and from this resolve on their part I do not think that they will be beaten off。 We know that Mrs。 Dall; an American lady; has taken up this subject; and has written a book on it; in which great good sense and honesty of purpose is shown。 Mrs。 Dall is a strong advocate for the increased employment of women; and I; with great deference; disagree with her。 I allude to her book now because she has pointed out; I think very strongly; the great reason why women do not engage themselves advantageously in trade pursuits。 She by no means overpraises her own sex; and openly declares that young women will not consent to place themselves in fair competition with men。 They will not undergo the labor and servitude of long study at their trades。 They will not give themselves up to an apprenticeship。 They will not enter upon their tasks as though they were to be the tasks of their lives。 They may have the same physical and mental aptitudes for learning a trade as men; but they have not the same devotion to the pursuit; and will not bind themselves to it thoroughly as men do。 In all which I quite agree with Mrs。 Dall; and the English of it isthat the young women want to get married。 God forbid that they should not so want。 Indeed; God has forbidden in a very express way that there should be any lack of such a desire on the part of women。 There has of late years arisen a feeling among masses of the best of our English ladies that this feminine propensity should be checked。 We are told that unmarried women may be respectable; which we always knew; that they may be useful; which we also acknowledgethinking still that; if married; they would be more useful; and that they may be happy; which we trustfeeling confident; however; that they might in another position be more happy。 But the question is not only as to the respectability; usefulness; and happiness of womankind; but as to that of men also。 If women can do without marriage; can men do so? And if not; how are the men to get wives; if the women elect to remain single? It will be thought that I am treating the subject as though it were simply jocose; but I beg to assure my reader that such is not my intention。 It certainly is the fact that that disinclination to an apprenticeship and unwillingness to bear the long training for a trade; of which Mrs。 Dall complains on the part of young women; arise from the fact that they have other hopes with which such apprenticeships would jar; and it is also certain that if such disinclination be overcome on the part of any great number; it must be overcome by the destruction or banishment of such hopes。 The question is whether good or evil would result from such a change。 It is often said that whatever difficulty a woman may have in getting a husband; no man need encounter difficulty in finding a wife。 But; in spite of this seeming fact; I think it must be allowed that if women are withdrawn from the marriage market; men must be withdrawn from it also to the same extent。 In any broad view of this matter; we are bound to look not on any individual case; and the possible remedies for such cases; but on the position in the world occupied by women in generalon the general happiness and welfare of the aggregate feminine world; and perhaps also a little on the general happiness and welfare of the aggregate male world。 When ladies and gentlemen advocate the right of women to employment; they are taking very different ground from that on which stand those less extensive philanthropists who exert themselves for the benefit of distressed needlewomen; for instance; or for the alleviation of the more bitter misery of governesses。 The two questions are in fact absolutely antagonistic to each other。 The rights…of…women advocate is doing his best to create that position for women from the possible misfortunes of which the friend of the needlewomen is struggling to relieve them。 The one is endeavoring to throw work from off the shoulders of men on to the shoulders of women; and the other is striving to lessen the burden which women are already bearing。 Of course it is good to relieve distress in individual cases。 That Song of the Shirt; which I regard as poetry of the immortal kind; has done an amount of good infinitely wider than poor Hood ever ventured to hope。 Of all such efforts I would speak not only with respect; but with loving admiration。 But of those whose efforts are made to spread work more widely among womento call upon them to make for us our watches; to print our books; to sit at our desks as clerks and to add up our accountsmuch as I may respect the individual operators in such a movement; I can express no admiration for their judgment。 I have seen women with ropes round their necks drawing a harrow over plowed ground。 No one will; I suppose; say that they approve of that。 But it would not have shocked me to see men drawing a harrow。 I should have thought it slow; unprofitable work; but my feelings would not have been hurt。 There must; therefore; be some limit; but if we men teach ourselves to believe that work is good for women; where is the limit to be drawn; and who shall draw it? It is true that there is now no actually defined limit。 There is much work that is commonly open to both sexes。 Personal domestic attendance is so; and the attendance in shops。 The use of the needle is shared between men and women; and few; I take it; know where the seamstress ends and where the tailor begins。 In many trades a woman can be; and very often is; the owner and manager of the business。 Painting
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